You know that moment when someone says, “Smile!” and suddenly every muscle in your face forgets what to do? Your eyes widen, your smile stiffens, and your elbow somehow ends up floating in mid-air like it’s trying to pick up a radio signal from 1978.
That, my friends, is what I call the Camera Face with Bonus Elbow Pose.
It’s the universal reaction to the words “Say cheese!”—a phrase that should probably be retired right alongside shoulder pads and Jell-O salads. Something about that command makes us instantly unnatural. And the elbow thing? No one really knows why we do it. It’s as if our body panics and thinks, “Quick! Make a triangle—photographers love triangles!”
But here’s the thing: the best photos are never the ones where we look posed and polished. They’re the ones where our eyes are laughing, our hands are busy, and our faces are relaxed because we forgot the camera was even there.
So next time someone points a phone your way, try this instead:
- Skip the cheese. Say “chocolate” or “bananas” instead.
- Tuck in the elbow. You’re not about to take flight.
- Think happy thoughts, move a little, and breathe.
You don’t need to look perfect — just present. The wrinkles, laugh lines, and genuine joy tell a story no filter can touch.
Remember what Psalm 100:1 says: “Make a joyful noise unto the Lord, all ye lands.” Joy isn’t about perfection — it’s about presence. When your smile comes from gratitude, it shows.
So shine on, Sister — tuck that wing, lift that chin, and let your joy be your best filter.
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